Thursday, August 4, 2011
Reflections on this Incredible Experience
As you think back over the last two weeks, what have you learned about yourself, your faith and more? Each of us have stretched ourselves beyond our comfort zones. Why is this important? How do you think this experience might change you and your service to the world?
I think over these last two weeks I have learned how strong I can be within myself and even though I haven't believed it in the past I do have certain gifts, like I have been told I have a good singing voice, hmmm. I have also thought my faith has become stronger through seeing the passion within the souls of the Batswana people. I have learnt that people can be drawn together in so many ways which is beautiful.
To stretch ourselves is important as we learn more about ourselves, other people and rich new heights of knowledge which can be truly inspiring.
I think I have gained self belief in my own gifts but also seen the bonding of complete strangers in such a short period of time, which is wonderful. I find the second part of the third question hard to answer as I'm not sure!
Georgi
Over the past two weeks I have learnt that when things are difficult I can look within myself and my faith and use it to understand and appreciate the good things, I have also learned a lot about the power of prayer and how it can help me to complete difficult tasks. The people of Botswana have made us feel truly welcome and the atmosphere to develop inn faith has been amazing
I think to stretch out of your comfort zone is the only way you can grow and develop as a person, when we are doing something which we wouldn't usually do we build support networks and we rely on God more readily to help lead us in the challenges.
This experience has completely changed me, my heart will always be in Botswana and with the people who shared in my experiences here. The support and welcoming has been inspirational and I hope to take home a readiness to learn, listen and help wherever possible.
- Emily
Botswana has been an inspiring journey in which I, personally, discovered how lucky we are in other countries around the globe. A few weeks before I came I began having doubts about coming because of personal experiences but as I prayed for guidance on what to do the excitement of coming got stronger and stronger.
I think in the context of comfort zones, I haven't been stretched in the relation to food or accommodation as I had an experience last year in the villages in Tanzania. The reasons I was stretched, was mainly trying to grasp the concept of people's ignorance of how they expected Africa to be and when they didn't get that, they weren't happy but as time went by, I decided each person has their own way of coping with particular things.
Botswana has been a contrast to what I experienced last year as there were cars, comfortable beds and food at the click of our fingers. I feel privileged to have been on the trip as it has allowed me to see both cultures of Africa.
Shaun O'Brien
Over the past two weeks I have had the most amazing experience of my life. In all honesty i think at i have learned to completely love Africa, the different culture and customs, it has all Been amazing, the way worship is over here has also made me realise that no matter how different we are in every aspect of our life, we all have one common belief and that is constantly growing stronger.
It is essential to stretch ourselves beyond our limit as it helps us to grow as people. I know that I have grew an unbelievable amount on this trip, a lot more than I expected. In addition I feel I am a much better person for it.
For starters I know now that I would love to come back to Africa once more and help in any way I can. I didn't know how much this place meant to me until I came. As the bishop said, it felt like I was coming home, and I would certainly offer my service to "come home" again!!
Matthew Dove
Over the past two weeks I have learned so many things about myself that I never knew before. For starters, I learned that in addition to the name my parents gave me, I also have a Setswana name, Mpho Kagiso which was given to me by two youth from Botswana, Patience and Owen. Mpho means gift and Kagiso means peace, a name that I will strive to live up to it. I also discovered that I have a second family half way around the world from my first. My host family went beyond the duties as a host and truly tried to make me feel as welcome as possible and by the third day my host mom introduced me as her second daughter. Her daughter, Tshephi and I decided that as neither of us had a sister, that we would become sisters. They took me on a tour of Gabs and made sure that I knew where the airport was, their reasoning of course was so that when I returned to visit I would be prepared. All in all, this trip has enabled me to find pieces of myself, my family, and friends that I had not yet known.
Prior to this trip, i fancied the Episcopal Church of North Carolina as distant cousins to the Anglican Church of Botswana. As such I expected to be greeted by our counterparts in Botswana as one might greet a distant cousin, friendly but a bit reserved and hesitant because we had never met before. I could not have been more mistaken in this assumption. Throughout nearly all of my experiences on this trip with the Batswana, there was this overwhelming hospitality, genuine interest, and sense of community. This was a welcome, if puzzling, development and my trip was made all the better for it. About half way through our trip, we were invited to dinner at the British High Commissioner's home and through a discussion with Bishop Trevor of Botswana, I began to understand a little more. The Bishop mentioned that there traditionally is not a Setswana word for cousin because they are not differentiated from ones siblings and are thus referred to as brother or sister, as they are part of the immediate family. Armed with this new insight, I was able to unlock the splendid mystery of the welcome that I had received throughout my time in Botswana. I realized that while I had naively assumed I would be greeted a distant cousin, the Batswana greeted me with open arms as a sister because that is the Botswana way. I will be forever grateful to my new friends in Botswana for overcoming my unwittingly narrow expectations by welcoming me as the brothers and the sisters that we are because without which, my experience would not have been nearly as rewarding and amazing as it was.
Janie Urbanowicz aka Mpho Kagiso
For me (and most likely for others too) Botswana has been an experience and a half. Being here and seeing places I never thought I would has made me realize that the world is my oyster. All the places we've been and all the people we've met here have really widened my horizons. Everyone always has a positive outlook on life - that has encouraged me to try and lead the most fulfilling life I can.
It was especially good to spend time with the Americans and get to know them; they are totally awesome. I can't wait to see you all again!
Although our time here in Botswana has come to an end, I believe that it is really just the beginning of a lifetime full of new and challenging experiences.
Thank you to everyone who made this possible.
Sally Hewett
I am currently on the flight home from Africa. On this trip I've had the opportunity to meet a young lady around my age who made a missions trip to South Africa. We talked about our various experiences and impressions of Africa as well as our beliefs and faith. This turned out to be a very thought-provoking conversation for only the first hour of our ghastly seventeen-hour flight. The young lady explained how her group stayed in South Africa for about three weeks in a modest hut without showers and "survived" off of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Yet she enthusiastically described memories of caring for the orphans and visiting hospitals. When it was my turn to share my experiences I was honestly embarrassed- I had just spent the past week at my host family's comfortable home, swimming pool and all. Did I ever really take part in the "true Africa experience"?
Yet as I began sharing memories like bonding with my host sister at the movies and family dinners, playing a game of pick-up soccer with some women of Botswana, and receiving an old, well-loved t-shirt from a new, well-loved best friend- I became reassured. I was returning to North Carolina with so many beautiful memories and new friendships, whereas the young lady described each new face as though they were a project instead of a new friend. Here marked the difference between ministry and mission.
As Bishop Trevor of Botswana explained in his speech at the HIV/AIDS Conference, the companion link between the dioceses of North Carolina, Newcastle, and Botswana is one that encourages us to "walk together in Christian Discipleship." Instead of assuming the responsibility of the people of Botswana and caring for them as a parent cares for a child, we must recognize them as fellow pilgrims and brothers and sisters of faith. Bishop Trevor continued his speech by inviting the youth from the three dioceses to "support and challenge each other." A vital part of the invitation being the phrase, "each other." Instead of allowing ourselves to take full responsibility of supporting everyone we must share the duty among us. The act of trusting God and others to support and challenge us can often find us out of our comfort zone as we have to learn to give up control. Giving up control and allowing cultures to envelop us proved to be just a few of the many encounters that led us outside of our comfort zone. Yet an open mind and a willingness to walk beside each other, instead of in front or behind, has allowed me to learn more than I can ever hope to share. I've learned that God can be celebrated through both silent prayer and joyous dancing. I've learned that youth have the ability to create opportunities and serve as role models for future generations. I've learned that the power of love and friendship know no borders.
And so I return to North Carolina with priceless knowledge and timeless friendships. I respectfully acknowledge the young lady's passion for mission and smile knowingly as she struggles with the phrase "cultural exchange". And as I depart her I will have the knowledge to understand that my place is not in front or behind, but beside the people of Botswana. My faith is somewhere in Gaborone around the dinner table where cooked carrots and conversation are shared with my host brother and sister. I am currently on a flight to North Carolina leaving both my family and my home.
Blythe Riggan
Tumelo (Faith)
Thinking back on my two weeks that I have spent in Botswana and South Africa, I have learned a great deal about myself than I could have imagined possible in the same time span. Personally, I feel as though it was a trip that has contributed quite a bit to my ever growing maturity. I feel myself growing from a child, inside my own little world, unconscious of both the joys and pitfalls that are experienced by people all across the world. I've learned that as a single person, I can change many parts of the world, as long as I have the support of my family, friends, and God behind me. Through them, I'm capable of spreading any word, funding any worthy cause, or supporting any group of my choosing.
Being stretched beyond ones comfort zone is always profitable, for the person and surrounding people alike. It allows one experience something that they never have, and this in itself is a learning experience in it's own right. As said by many, experience is life's greatest teacher. It teaches you about one's self, how one would act in these situations, and how they can adjust if necessary. These last two weeks have given me learning experiences that would have in no way been possible without the wonderful bond that the Diocese of North Carolina and Diocese of Botswana have, and I pray that it is one that remains strong for decades to come.
At the moment, I'm positive that this adventure has changed me. I has made me wiser in ways I did not believe it could, more knowledgeable in aspects that I would have never thought of, and genuinely grateful for the opportunity for the amazing privileges that I have in the United States. That is how it has changed my service to the world. Before this trip, my goals in live were, in a way, completely selfish. I wanted to go to a good college and do the things Ive said I would because I wanted to make a successful living. Now, however, that's not the only thing. Now, I want it to mean something. I want to change something in the world. I want to change something, and improve it, so it can benefit any and everyone.
Cameron Marshall
Modise (Shepard)
Going into this trip I was hoping to become an expert on Botswana since I will hopefully be returning for an extended amount of time. I am probably more lost now than I was but in an overwhelmingly happy way. The culture of Botswana is so simple and so complicated all at the same time. It seems as though they live very similar to our lives and yet have African culture dribbled in. This trip has intrigued me even more to get to know the language and culture of Botswana and other countries. Traveling away from home not only allows you to learn about other cultures and people but it allows you to grow and appreciate yourself and your own culture. I don't think I ever wanted to have a chickfela sandwich more in my entire life! I absolutely loved getting to know youth in my diocese, youth from new castle and youth from Botswana. We focused on finding out our differences but it was clear we all had a lot in common.
Ke o rata (I love you)
Anna
Tsala,(friend)
Before we left on the trip I had no idea what to expect. Up until the last night I thought we would be doing service and volunteer work. I quickly learned that this was not a mission trip and after two weeks I still have no idea what to call this trip. What I do know is that it has been an amazing experience. Over the two weeks I learned a lot about how people worship differently and it was refreshing to see the passion that the people have when it comes to their faith. All of us were stretched in some sort of way and it was important because it allowed us to be immersed in a different culture. This trip didn't necessarily change me but I had some great experiences that I will never forget. I am so appreciative that I got to meet all of the great people that went on the trip and they all have a special place in my heart.
Mary Peyton
Before we left on the trip I had no idea what to expect. Up until the last night I thought we would be doing service and volunteer work. I quickly learned that this was not a mission trip and after two weeks I still have no idea what to call this trip. What I do know is that it has been an amazing experience. Over the two weeks I learned a lot about how people worship differently and it was refreshing to see the passion that the people have when it comes to their faith. All of us were stretched in some sort of way and it was important because it allowed us to be immersed in a different culture. This trip didn't necessarily change me but I had some great experiences that I will never forget. I am so appreciative that I got to meet all of the great people that went on the trip and they all have a special place in my heart.
Mary Peyton
Two weeks ago, the whole of my world consisted of what I knew in my small town. However, Botswana drastically changed that during the past two weeks. I think the greatest thing I came to understand was that all cultures are different and when you learn to embrace the diversity, you have the opportunity to create truly special friendships. It was through these bonds I made with the youth of Botswana and New Castle that my faith grew as well. Suddenly, Christianity wasn't just what I saw at church every Sunday. Instead, it was passion in the voices of the congregation as they broke out in sporadic song. It was tradition mixed with joyful spirits and a love of Christ. Christianity existed beyond the walls of America, and that simple fact has allowed me to love being a Christian that much more. During my stay in Africa, I let go of my comfort zone and met some spectacular people. In doing so, I came to understand that I have friends all over the world now. So when I get home, my world will no longer be confined to the narrow dimensions I knew a little over two weeks ago. This new world of mine exists everywhere, from the United States all the way to England and Africa.
- Hayley Fowler
This trip has expanded my faith because this was the first time I had seen a congregation fully celebrate their Christian faith during a worship service. They thanked God for everything they had, even if it wasn't that much. I began to wonder why we, as Americans, don't praise God for what we have, even if we have so much to be thankful for. When you are stretched beyond your comfort zone, you grow as a person. You became more comfortable in strange situations, and therefore, you become a more versatile person, ready to adapt to any new situation. This trip has pushed everyone to their limits, in a good way, and has made us more balanced and versatile people. Finally, this trip has made me see my home in relation to the rest of the world. I now see how problems like AIDS and hunger affect other human beings. I can now truly see the devastation these problems gave created, and this increases my motivation to help solve these problems. I can now more easily see that North Carolina isn't the center of the world, and problems that don't affect North Carolina still affect the world around us. Finally, Tim and I finished Breaking Bad. *DISCLAIMER* I had two hours of sleep last night and am running on empty, so these answers might not make the most sense.
~Conor Jones
I have connected with various people that seem very different but actually we are all similar. Also I have found that there are many ways to practice my faith. Some of them work better than what I was doing but other ways dont work as well. Also, this trip has given me a chance to crawl out of the shell I am usually in, and I am glad that I did because I had a great time. This trip pushed us all out of our comfort zones. I tried foods that I have never heard of before. This gives us experience so we know what we like and dont and what we want to do later in life. The experiences that we have had this trip will stay with us forever. I will alway have friends from now on in Newcastle and Botswana. These are friendships that would have never had the chance to make otherwise. This has given me a liking of traveling and meeting people and doing projects with them, whether it is planning or something more physical. If I had the chance to do it agian, i would say yes without any hesitation. No matter where, I would go, because you never know when you will be able to go there agian. Wherever I am needed, I will go. I would love to work this the people from this trip agian if i could. I will do whatever service was needed wherever. This trip and the people I traveled it with have been truly inspirational.
Paul Hughes
Kabo (Gift)
Over the past 2 weeks, I’ve learned that I can be stronger than I thought I could, and grew in courage as well as faith. Having not been brought up as a Christian, and finding God within my youth group, I’ve always been more reserved with sharing faith and showing my true self. With the support of those around me, I took my first ever communion whilst on this trip. That for me was a big thing, I’d always been nervous, but realized I had nothing to fear. I made friends with strangers, and closer friends to those I already knew.
As I mentioned I’ve always been a reserved person, and being in such close proximity with a lot of people was difficult at first, but everyone was welcoming, from all 3 diocese, and I feel like I’ve come out of this trip more at peace with myself and others. My faith has taken a huge step on this trip, yes with my first communion, but also with how God works within our hearts.
In a new place with new people its easy to feel lost, but our brothers and sisters in North Carolina, and Botswana have shown that we truly are one heart, one mind, one body in Christ.
Africa felt like coming home, the bishop of Botswana reminded us of this often, but I never truly understood this till I was leaving and felt the ache of goodbyes, though they will never be a full goodbye, as I aim to return one day.
The SOS village, how they run it to give every child a family life, a stable up bringing and a chance at independent living once adults, has made me see why we should serve the Lord, people need support and we should give that wherever and whenever we can, because someone somewhere will always have our backs. I can do everything through him who gives me strength, Phil. 4:13.
My experience has changed me, fact. I've become a brighter and happier spirited person, thanks to the things we've done and the people I’ve met. I have a better understanding of faith is different for everyone, how it changes people, and how I can live now knowing I have a global family, that will always support me, no matter what.
Nna le Tumelo (keep faith)
Jo Taylor
Biotumelo (happiness)
I have learnt that I love travelling and learning new cultures and languages. Before I thought it was just because of being brought up in France but this trip has really developed my love of anything foreign and I can’t wait to go travelling again! I think I’ve become more independent and confident in myself which has really prepared me for next year when I move to university (college) and have to do everything myself. I’ve also learnt that my faith is nothing compared to the people in Botswana but has become stronger through it… Much worse things have happened to a lot of them than to me yet they still believe so strongly and are such devoted Christians that it’s embarrassing that for me it’s kind of just something I do because my parents tell me to.
Being stretched for me is important because it makes life so much more worthwhile and gives you a sense of fulfilment which you can’t achieve if you don’t push yourself that bit further. It also makes you appreciate other people’s struggles and understand different situations/cultures better as to put yourself in different shoes.
I think this experience has changed me as I’ve caught the travelling bug and in particular travelling to Africa so when I’m older hopefully I’ll carry on visiting/living in different countries. The AIDS workshop really inspired me to do something about it and I hope that over the next few years I can really make a change to the current situation. The last activity with Tim and Beth and in particular the question about whether you knew someone personally who had been infected with AIDS really stood out and made me determined to try and change people’s reply to it. The visit to the SOS village really made me want to help young orphans like Angela as she is such a lovely little girl but she wouldn’t have anything were it not for the village and I doubt that other countries have such good care facilities as in Botswana.
Lydia aka Malebogo (Thanksgiving)
I think over these last two weeks I have learned how strong I can be within myself and even though I haven't believed it in the past I do have certain gifts, like I have been told I have a good singing voice, hmmm. I have also thought my faith has become stronger through seeing the passion within the souls of the Batswana people. I have learnt that people can be drawn together in so many ways which is beautiful.
To stretch ourselves is important as we learn more about ourselves, other people and rich new heights of knowledge which can be truly inspiring.
I think I have gained self belief in my own gifts but also seen the bonding of complete strangers in such a short period of time, which is wonderful. I find the second part of the third question hard to answer as I'm not sure!
Georgi
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I think to stretch out of your comfort zone is the only way you can grow and develop as a person, when we are doing something which we wouldn't usually do we build support networks and we rely on God more readily to help lead us in the challenges.
This experience has completely changed me, my heart will always be in Botswana and with the people who shared in my experiences here. The support and welcoming has been inspirational and I hope to take home a readiness to learn, listen and help wherever possible.
- Emily
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Botswana has been an inspiring journey in which I, personally, discovered how lucky we are in other countries around the globe. A few weeks before I came I began having doubts about coming because of personal experiences but as I prayed for guidance on what to do the excitement of coming got stronger and stronger.
I think in the context of comfort zones, I haven't been stretched in the relation to food or accommodation as I had an experience last year in the villages in Tanzania. The reasons I was stretched, was mainly trying to grasp the concept of people's ignorance of how they expected Africa to be and when they didn't get that, they weren't happy but as time went by, I decided each person has their own way of coping with particular things.
Botswana has been a contrast to what I experienced last year as there were cars, comfortable beds and food at the click of our fingers. I feel privileged to have been on the trip as it has allowed me to see both cultures of Africa.
Shaun O'Brien
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Over the past two weeks I have had the most amazing experience of my life. In all honesty i think at i have learned to completely love Africa, the different culture and customs, it has all Been amazing, the way worship is over here has also made me realise that no matter how different we are in every aspect of our life, we all have one common belief and that is constantly growing stronger.
It is essential to stretch ourselves beyond our limit as it helps us to grow as people. I know that I have grew an unbelievable amount on this trip, a lot more than I expected. In addition I feel I am a much better person for it.
For starters I know now that I would love to come back to Africa once more and help in any way I can. I didn't know how much this place meant to me until I came. As the bishop said, it felt like I was coming home, and I would certainly offer my service to "come home" again!!
Matthew Dove
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Over the past two weeks I have learned so many things about myself that I never knew before. For starters, I learned that in addition to the name my parents gave me, I also have a Setswana name, Mpho Kagiso which was given to me by two youth from Botswana, Patience and Owen. Mpho means gift and Kagiso means peace, a name that I will strive to live up to it. I also discovered that I have a second family half way around the world from my first. My host family went beyond the duties as a host and truly tried to make me feel as welcome as possible and by the third day my host mom introduced me as her second daughter. Her daughter, Tshephi and I decided that as neither of us had a sister, that we would become sisters. They took me on a tour of Gabs and made sure that I knew where the airport was, their reasoning of course was so that when I returned to visit I would be prepared. All in all, this trip has enabled me to find pieces of myself, my family, and friends that I had not yet known.
Prior to this trip, i fancied the Episcopal Church of North Carolina as distant cousins to the Anglican Church of Botswana. As such I expected to be greeted by our counterparts in Botswana as one might greet a distant cousin, friendly but a bit reserved and hesitant because we had never met before. I could not have been more mistaken in this assumption. Throughout nearly all of my experiences on this trip with the Batswana, there was this overwhelming hospitality, genuine interest, and sense of community. This was a welcome, if puzzling, development and my trip was made all the better for it. About half way through our trip, we were invited to dinner at the British High Commissioner's home and through a discussion with Bishop Trevor of Botswana, I began to understand a little more. The Bishop mentioned that there traditionally is not a Setswana word for cousin because they are not differentiated from ones siblings and are thus referred to as brother or sister, as they are part of the immediate family. Armed with this new insight, I was able to unlock the splendid mystery of the welcome that I had received throughout my time in Botswana. I realized that while I had naively assumed I would be greeted a distant cousin, the Batswana greeted me with open arms as a sister because that is the Botswana way. I will be forever grateful to my new friends in Botswana for overcoming my unwittingly narrow expectations by welcoming me as the brothers and the sisters that we are because without which, my experience would not have been nearly as rewarding and amazing as it was.
Janie Urbanowicz aka Mpho Kagiso
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For me (and most likely for others too) Botswana has been an experience and a half. Being here and seeing places I never thought I would has made me realize that the world is my oyster. All the places we've been and all the people we've met here have really widened my horizons. Everyone always has a positive outlook on life - that has encouraged me to try and lead the most fulfilling life I can.
It was especially good to spend time with the Americans and get to know them; they are totally awesome. I can't wait to see you all again!
Although our time here in Botswana has come to an end, I believe that it is really just the beginning of a lifetime full of new and challenging experiences.
Thank you to everyone who made this possible.
Sally Hewett
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I am currently on the flight home from Africa. On this trip I've had the opportunity to meet a young lady around my age who made a missions trip to South Africa. We talked about our various experiences and impressions of Africa as well as our beliefs and faith. This turned out to be a very thought-provoking conversation for only the first hour of our ghastly seventeen-hour flight. The young lady explained how her group stayed in South Africa for about three weeks in a modest hut without showers and "survived" off of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Yet she enthusiastically described memories of caring for the orphans and visiting hospitals. When it was my turn to share my experiences I was honestly embarrassed- I had just spent the past week at my host family's comfortable home, swimming pool and all. Did I ever really take part in the "true Africa experience"?
Yet as I began sharing memories like bonding with my host sister at the movies and family dinners, playing a game of pick-up soccer with some women of Botswana, and receiving an old, well-loved t-shirt from a new, well-loved best friend- I became reassured. I was returning to North Carolina with so many beautiful memories and new friendships, whereas the young lady described each new face as though they were a project instead of a new friend. Here marked the difference between ministry and mission.
As Bishop Trevor of Botswana explained in his speech at the HIV/AIDS Conference, the companion link between the dioceses of North Carolina, Newcastle, and Botswana is one that encourages us to "walk together in Christian Discipleship." Instead of assuming the responsibility of the people of Botswana and caring for them as a parent cares for a child, we must recognize them as fellow pilgrims and brothers and sisters of faith. Bishop Trevor continued his speech by inviting the youth from the three dioceses to "support and challenge each other." A vital part of the invitation being the phrase, "each other." Instead of allowing ourselves to take full responsibility of supporting everyone we must share the duty among us. The act of trusting God and others to support and challenge us can often find us out of our comfort zone as we have to learn to give up control. Giving up control and allowing cultures to envelop us proved to be just a few of the many encounters that led us outside of our comfort zone. Yet an open mind and a willingness to walk beside each other, instead of in front or behind, has allowed me to learn more than I can ever hope to share. I've learned that God can be celebrated through both silent prayer and joyous dancing. I've learned that youth have the ability to create opportunities and serve as role models for future generations. I've learned that the power of love and friendship know no borders.
And so I return to North Carolina with priceless knowledge and timeless friendships. I respectfully acknowledge the young lady's passion for mission and smile knowingly as she struggles with the phrase "cultural exchange". And as I depart her I will have the knowledge to understand that my place is not in front or behind, but beside the people of Botswana. My faith is somewhere in Gaborone around the dinner table where cooked carrots and conversation are shared with my host brother and sister. I am currently on a flight to North Carolina leaving both my family and my home.
Blythe Riggan
Tumelo (Faith)
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Thinking back on my two weeks that I have spent in Botswana and South Africa, I have learned a great deal about myself than I could have imagined possible in the same time span. Personally, I feel as though it was a trip that has contributed quite a bit to my ever growing maturity. I feel myself growing from a child, inside my own little world, unconscious of both the joys and pitfalls that are experienced by people all across the world. I've learned that as a single person, I can change many parts of the world, as long as I have the support of my family, friends, and God behind me. Through them, I'm capable of spreading any word, funding any worthy cause, or supporting any group of my choosing.
Being stretched beyond ones comfort zone is always profitable, for the person and surrounding people alike. It allows one experience something that they never have, and this in itself is a learning experience in it's own right. As said by many, experience is life's greatest teacher. It teaches you about one's self, how one would act in these situations, and how they can adjust if necessary. These last two weeks have given me learning experiences that would have in no way been possible without the wonderful bond that the Diocese of North Carolina and Diocese of Botswana have, and I pray that it is one that remains strong for decades to come.
At the moment, I'm positive that this adventure has changed me. I has made me wiser in ways I did not believe it could, more knowledgeable in aspects that I would have never thought of, and genuinely grateful for the opportunity for the amazing privileges that I have in the United States. That is how it has changed my service to the world. Before this trip, my goals in live were, in a way, completely selfish. I wanted to go to a good college and do the things Ive said I would because I wanted to make a successful living. Now, however, that's not the only thing. Now, I want it to mean something. I want to change something in the world. I want to change something, and improve it, so it can benefit any and everyone.
Cameron Marshall
Modise (Shepard)
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Going into this trip I was hoping to become an expert on Botswana since I will hopefully be returning for an extended amount of time. I am probably more lost now than I was but in an overwhelmingly happy way. The culture of Botswana is so simple and so complicated all at the same time. It seems as though they live very similar to our lives and yet have African culture dribbled in. This trip has intrigued me even more to get to know the language and culture of Botswana and other countries. Traveling away from home not only allows you to learn about other cultures and people but it allows you to grow and appreciate yourself and your own culture. I don't think I ever wanted to have a chickfela sandwich more in my entire life! I absolutely loved getting to know youth in my diocese, youth from new castle and youth from Botswana. We focused on finding out our differences but it was clear we all had a lot in common.
Ke o rata (I love you)
Anna
Tsala,(friend)
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Before we left on the trip I had no idea what to expect. Up until the last night I thought we would be doing service and volunteer work. I quickly learned that this was not a mission trip and after two weeks I still have no idea what to call this trip. What I do know is that it has been an amazing experience. Over the two weeks I learned a lot about how people worship differently and it was refreshing to see the passion that the people have when it comes to their faith. All of us were stretched in some sort of way and it was important because it allowed us to be immersed in a different culture. This trip didn't necessarily change me but I had some great experiences that I will never forget. I am so appreciative that I got to meet all of the great people that went on the trip and they all have a special place in my heart.
Mary Peyton
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Before we left on the trip I had no idea what to expect. Up until the last night I thought we would be doing service and volunteer work. I quickly learned that this was not a mission trip and after two weeks I still have no idea what to call this trip. What I do know is that it has been an amazing experience. Over the two weeks I learned a lot about how people worship differently and it was refreshing to see the passion that the people have when it comes to their faith. All of us were stretched in some sort of way and it was important because it allowed us to be immersed in a different culture. This trip didn't necessarily change me but I had some great experiences that I will never forget. I am so appreciative that I got to meet all of the great people that went on the trip and they all have a special place in my heart.
Mary Peyton
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Two weeks ago, the whole of my world consisted of what I knew in my small town. However, Botswana drastically changed that during the past two weeks. I think the greatest thing I came to understand was that all cultures are different and when you learn to embrace the diversity, you have the opportunity to create truly special friendships. It was through these bonds I made with the youth of Botswana and New Castle that my faith grew as well. Suddenly, Christianity wasn't just what I saw at church every Sunday. Instead, it was passion in the voices of the congregation as they broke out in sporadic song. It was tradition mixed with joyful spirits and a love of Christ. Christianity existed beyond the walls of America, and that simple fact has allowed me to love being a Christian that much more. During my stay in Africa, I let go of my comfort zone and met some spectacular people. In doing so, I came to understand that I have friends all over the world now. So when I get home, my world will no longer be confined to the narrow dimensions I knew a little over two weeks ago. This new world of mine exists everywhere, from the United States all the way to England and Africa.
- Hayley Fowler
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This trip has expanded my faith because this was the first time I had seen a congregation fully celebrate their Christian faith during a worship service. They thanked God for everything they had, even if it wasn't that much. I began to wonder why we, as Americans, don't praise God for what we have, even if we have so much to be thankful for. When you are stretched beyond your comfort zone, you grow as a person. You became more comfortable in strange situations, and therefore, you become a more versatile person, ready to adapt to any new situation. This trip has pushed everyone to their limits, in a good way, and has made us more balanced and versatile people. Finally, this trip has made me see my home in relation to the rest of the world. I now see how problems like AIDS and hunger affect other human beings. I can now truly see the devastation these problems gave created, and this increases my motivation to help solve these problems. I can now more easily see that North Carolina isn't the center of the world, and problems that don't affect North Carolina still affect the world around us. Finally, Tim and I finished Breaking Bad. *DISCLAIMER* I had two hours of sleep last night and am running on empty, so these answers might not make the most sense.
~Conor Jones
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I have connected with various people that seem very different but actually we are all similar. Also I have found that there are many ways to practice my faith. Some of them work better than what I was doing but other ways dont work as well. Also, this trip has given me a chance to crawl out of the shell I am usually in, and I am glad that I did because I had a great time. This trip pushed us all out of our comfort zones. I tried foods that I have never heard of before. This gives us experience so we know what we like and dont and what we want to do later in life. The experiences that we have had this trip will stay with us forever. I will alway have friends from now on in Newcastle and Botswana. These are friendships that would have never had the chance to make otherwise. This has given me a liking of traveling and meeting people and doing projects with them, whether it is planning or something more physical. If I had the chance to do it agian, i would say yes without any hesitation. No matter where, I would go, because you never know when you will be able to go there agian. Wherever I am needed, I will go. I would love to work this the people from this trip agian if i could. I will do whatever service was needed wherever. This trip and the people I traveled it with have been truly inspirational.
Paul Hughes
Kabo (Gift)
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Over the past 2 weeks, I’ve learned that I can be stronger than I thought I could, and grew in courage as well as faith. Having not been brought up as a Christian, and finding God within my youth group, I’ve always been more reserved with sharing faith and showing my true self. With the support of those around me, I took my first ever communion whilst on this trip. That for me was a big thing, I’d always been nervous, but realized I had nothing to fear. I made friends with strangers, and closer friends to those I already knew.
As I mentioned I’ve always been a reserved person, and being in such close proximity with a lot of people was difficult at first, but everyone was welcoming, from all 3 diocese, and I feel like I’ve come out of this trip more at peace with myself and others. My faith has taken a huge step on this trip, yes with my first communion, but also with how God works within our hearts.
In a new place with new people its easy to feel lost, but our brothers and sisters in North Carolina, and Botswana have shown that we truly are one heart, one mind, one body in Christ.
Africa felt like coming home, the bishop of Botswana reminded us of this often, but I never truly understood this till I was leaving and felt the ache of goodbyes, though they will never be a full goodbye, as I aim to return one day.
The SOS village, how they run it to give every child a family life, a stable up bringing and a chance at independent living once adults, has made me see why we should serve the Lord, people need support and we should give that wherever and whenever we can, because someone somewhere will always have our backs. I can do everything through him who gives me strength, Phil. 4:13.
My experience has changed me, fact. I've become a brighter and happier spirited person, thanks to the things we've done and the people I’ve met. I have a better understanding of faith is different for everyone, how it changes people, and how I can live now knowing I have a global family, that will always support me, no matter what.
Nna le Tumelo (keep faith)
Jo Taylor
Biotumelo (happiness)
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I have learnt that I love travelling and learning new cultures and languages. Before I thought it was just because of being brought up in France but this trip has really developed my love of anything foreign and I can’t wait to go travelling again! I think I’ve become more independent and confident in myself which has really prepared me for next year when I move to university (college) and have to do everything myself. I’ve also learnt that my faith is nothing compared to the people in Botswana but has become stronger through it… Much worse things have happened to a lot of them than to me yet they still believe so strongly and are such devoted Christians that it’s embarrassing that for me it’s kind of just something I do because my parents tell me to.
Being stretched for me is important because it makes life so much more worthwhile and gives you a sense of fulfilment which you can’t achieve if you don’t push yourself that bit further. It also makes you appreciate other people’s struggles and understand different situations/cultures better as to put yourself in different shoes.
I think this experience has changed me as I’ve caught the travelling bug and in particular travelling to Africa so when I’m older hopefully I’ll carry on visiting/living in different countries. The AIDS workshop really inspired me to do something about it and I hope that over the next few years I can really make a change to the current situation. The last activity with Tim and Beth and in particular the question about whether you knew someone personally who had been infected with AIDS really stood out and made me determined to try and change people’s reply to it. The visit to the SOS village really made me want to help young orphans like Angela as she is such a lovely little girl but she wouldn’t have anything were it not for the village and I doubt that other countries have such good care facilities as in Botswana.
Lydia aka Malebogo (Thanksgiving)
Monday, August 1, 2011
Sunset in South Afrcia
I just discovered some photos I had taken on my iphone. We were all moved by one of the most beautiful sunsets we had ever since. Photos just don't give the full picture, but hope you will enjoy.
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